Happy New Years Eve - by Monica

Today is the last day of 2010. There are ten minutes left and then you can start a new year with no regrets. What's your new years resolution?

One person can make a difference - by Monica

There are many people who want to change the world.

Actually doing something about it, well that's a different story.

We make excuses like, "I'm only one person. What can I do?" And then we don’t do anything at all.

After meeting Orion Township resident Bob Hagerty, I learned that one person really can make a difference.

When Bob was on a business trip to South Korea, on the bus ride he met a pastor from Myanmar, the poorest country in Southeast Asia and the second poorest country in the world. On the trip, the pastor told Bob all about Myanmar, and about how he had opened an orphanage there. The pastor let Bob take home pictures of the orphans.

When Bob came home from his trip, instead of just feeling sorry for the orphans in Myanmar, he decided to be proactive and actually do something about it.

He visited Myanmar and, while there, learned that two orphanages were being evicted by their landlords.

So, Bob decided to adopt these two orphanages along with Mercy Home, the orphanage built by the pastor he had met on the bus.

Now, Bob has quit his job and, every three months, Bob goes to Myanmar for 28 days at a time to visit his orphans. With the help of donations, solely supports these orphanages, with 64 total orphans, in Myanmar. Orphans are not allowed to be adopted in Myanmar, so the orphanages are their homes.

Read the original article at The Oakland Press. For more information and to donate money to Myanmar, visit Bob's website at: mercyformyanmar.com.

400 Wins - by Kristy

In dramatic fashion, Chris Osgood got his 400th career win in the Red Wings overtime win in Colorado. Osgood has been chasing this milestone for quite some time and the hard work has finally paid off. He faced close to 50 shots and made many jaw-dropping saves to keep himself and his team in the game.

The true story of St. Nicholas - by Monica

Read original article at: St. Nicholas Center
Since working at the Oakland Press, I have had the pleasure of writing several stories about those who are helping those less fortunate than they are this Christmas. I know, with the stories I have written, I have had a lot better glimpse of humanity than most reporters have. As we all know, Christmas has become very commercialized. I should know -- I've had three jobs this holiday season just so I could afford all the Christmas presents I had to buy.

But reading the true story of St. Nicholas (or as many people know him, "Santa Clause") showed me that he did not want himself to be memorialized in this way -- to make Christmas all about buying and receiving. After all, St. Nicholas gave away everything he had to help those in need with their necessities in life. St. Nicholas became known for his generosity to those in need and his love for children.

Just think about it for a minute -- do you think St. Nicholas would want the thing we look forward to the most on Christmas morning is to get stuff, things we probably won't even remember receiving a year from now? Do you think St. Nicholas would want us to spend the whole Christmas season standing in line, trying to get the perfect toy, instead of actually spending time with the children we are giving the toys too? I've heard several people say they don't even like Christmas anymore. All it means to them is long lines at the mall and pulling their hair out from being so stressed. Do you think this is what St. Nicholas had in mind?

There is so much more to Christmas than this.

Read this story on the Oakland Press by reporter Carol Hopkins about a woman who truly did help out others this Christmas season. An unknown woman in a red coat paid for the groceries of a senior citizen, named Jerri, who had her leg in a leg brace and couldn't walk very fast to see the identity of her "angel in a red coat," when her credit card was declined.

“Why did God pick me?” she asked. “It’s a miracle, it really is.”

Afterward, Jerri thought long and hard about what to do next, saying she wanted to use the money she’d saved in a meaningful way.

She said she feels Jesus wants the money to be a “seed,” not just given away to pay a bill.

Jerri is working on a plan to give the money to a program that will help the needy learn a trade or new skill. She hopes the angel will call The Oakland Press so she can speak with her.

“I want her to know that I’m doing something about it,” she said. “I want this $145 to grow.”

Merry Christmas - From Kristy

No matter how you spend your holidays this weekend, be sure to enjoy every minute of it.

NHL Takes Over 'The Price is Right' - by Kristy

Today the legendary game show, The Price is Right, had a few special prizes presented by a few special guests.
Former NHL player Jeremy Roenick, in his Chicago Blackhawks jersey, was on the Price is Right Stage to present a prize to a lucky winner. She won tons of NHL games and memorabilia, as well as tickets to the Stanley Cup Final.
Later, in the showcase showdown, the same lucky girl got a chance to bid on a trip to Pittsburgh to attend the 2011 Winter Classic. The showcase was presented via satellite by Alex Ovechkin and Sidney Crosby.
The NHL lacks a certain popularity in comparison to other sports leagues, which is why I love seeing it represented in venues such as this.

Nothing says Christmas like an...elephant?

Image credit: Ugly Christmas Lights
Read original article on AOL.

"Nothing says Christmas like an elephant," said Matt Phillips, creator of uglychristmaslights.com

I don't know about you, but I love seeing the extravagant, creative and sometimes over-the-top and tacky light displays that come out at Christmas.

My boyfriend and I sat in the car with the windows down, watching a Christmas display of lights that flashed in rhythm with Christmas songs that played from their backyard. My boyfriend felt awkward sitting in front of their house -- while I argued, "That's what the light display is for! So people can see them!"

If you're not afraid to be a stalker this one time of year and admire the outside of people's house, I would encourage you to go on the "Tacky Light Show." This website creates a fun opportunity for you and your family or friends to do some weekend night during the next couple weeks. If you type in your zip code on the website, it'll show you a map of all the light displays decorated with at least 10,000 lights within 25 miles of your zip code so you can go on a tour of all the extravagant light displays.

NFL Game Moved to Detroit - by Kristy

It's not every day Monday Night Football is played in Detroit. It's not every day that a team's home field will be dismantled and used for another team's home game. It's also not every day that a blizzard causes a football team's arena's roof to completely collapse.
This has been the case for the Minnesota Vikings. They were scheduled to host the New York Giants, however Mother Nature had different plans. Due to the arena's roof collapsing, the game was cancelled and rescheduled for Monday night at Detroit's Ford Field.
While this is clearly inconvenient for Minnesota and New York fans who were planning on going to the game in Minnesota, it's a unique gift to residents of the Detroit area. The game tonight was free and open to anyone who wanted to come. Since that announcement of free tickets was made yesterday, they have given them all away. Of course Minnesota and New York fans who had tickets for the game get first priority seating.
While this story might not fit in the ballpark of "inspiring" it is certainly unique and can be thought of as a positive for the Detroit football fan base.

In case you missed it: here's the video that captured the whole incident.

Be proud to be a geek - by Monica

Image credit: Thisnext. Read Katie's mom's blog here or read original articles on To Write Love On Her Arms or CNN.com

Today is "Proud to Be Me Day."

The day is hosted by 7-year-old Katie Goldman's school in Illinois in order to raise awareness of bullying. I couldn't believe all the support for this one girl who was made fun of in school. It's so inspiring that so many people took this stand against bullying to help this girl. It shows that, no matter how many bullies there are in the world, there are so many people willing to take a stand against it. Almost 30,000 people, attending on Facebook, are planning on taking part in this Geek Pride Day.

Katie is a huge fan of the "Star Wars" sagas, carrying around a "Star Wars" water bottle to school everyday. But then, the kids at school started making fun of her -- telling her that "Star Wars" is only for boys, not for girls. Katie was the only girl in class who was adopted, who wore glasses and had to wear a patch on her eye. And, so, she decided to change herself for the kids in her class -- bringing a pink water bottle to school instead of her "Star Wars" one so she could try and fit in in some aspect of her life.

Katie's mom posted a blog about what had happened, and the voice of Padme in the animated "Star Wars: Clone Wars" read it. So did blogger and fellow geek Jen Yates.

Catherine Taber, the voice of Padme, wrote: "I am [the] actress who has the great honor of being Padme Amidala on 'Star Wars: the Clone Wars!' I just wanted to tell Katie that she is in VERY good company being a female Star Wars fans...I know that Padme would tell you to be proud of who YOU are and know that you are not ALONE!THE FORCE is with you Katie!"

Katie received thousands of support from people she didn't knew -- and was sent "Star Wars" girl gear, a lightsaber and a cartoon of her as a Jedi.

So, today, broadcast what you're interested in, whether it's "Star Wars" like Katie or something else. I'm hoping this will help people to realize that you need to be whoever you want to be -- and stop making fun of people who are "different" than you.

Festive Lights - by Kristy

Looking for something to get in the holiday spirit? Drive through the festive lights in Wayne County Hines Park. The massive lights display extends for 4 miles. There is only a $5 donation per car, and believe me, it's worth the money. Come check it out, it will be open every night from 7-10pm until December 31st.

ASL - by Kristy

Today I wanted to share an inspiring story of my own. Last week when volunteering at the Children's Hospital, I met a young deaf girl. Since I had taken a year of American Sign Language at school, I introduced myself and she was so surprised and happy that I could communicate with her in sign. We ended up having a lot of fun playing with all sorts of toys. This girl was so witty, she was telling jokes through sign language and that is such an unbelievable sight to see. It just goes to show how you never know how, when, or where an opportunity to make a difference in some body's day can come up. The feeling you get is immeasurable and unexplainable.

Letting talents shine through - by Monica

Read the original article by me...featured in the Oakland Press on page A-2.

On Wednesday, I had the pleasure of interviewing 16-year-old Danielle Purkey who is wise beyond her years.

I talked to her on the phone from Denver, where she was at a leadership conference. She received a scholarship for the conference, which paid for all of her expenses when in Denver. And I knew that she deserved this more than anyone.

Reading the e-mails her father had sent the Oakland Press, I knew immediately that I would like her. She has been volunteering with the Special Olympics since 2008. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for those with mental disabilities, especially since writing an article about the Special Olympics and seeing how excited the youth there were to be interviewed, to be noticed and to be treated like celebrities instead of being treated differently. My boyfriend is the manager in a group home for adults with mental disabilities like autism, and I have met all the guys he works with. So, when Danielle told me about her passion for those with mental disabilities and said, "I love them, they’re just so beautiful. People just aren’t aware of what the issues are. They are so gifted. They give me hugs whenever they see me. They are all so bright and wonderful," I knew exactly what she meant.

Her goal is to integrate those with mental disabilities into the work force based on their talents. And I really believe that, with this idea, Danielle will change the world. I think this is a really great idea. Sometimes, people treat those with mental disabilities like there is something wrong with them. But that's not true. I have met many people with mental disabilities who are so talented. And it's not fair for them just to be cooped up. They should get the chance to live out their dreams just like you and me. And that's the idea that Danielle has -- give people with mental disabilities the chance to show off their talents, the chance to live out their dreams.

Here's an example of a girl with special needs who is living out her dreams by being on the hit television show "Glee." She plays Becky on the television show, and she is my favorite character. She displays so much talent, a talent that Danielle wishes more people would let shine through:

The cauliflowers in the world - by Monica

Okay, first of all, this story begins with happy news and ends with happy news. But let's first start from the beginning. I met Frank and Catherine Genovese, owners of the Candy Cane CHRISTmas Tree Farm in Oxford Township. They helped the campaign Trees for Troops donate trees to military bases. I think this is great what they are doing for the troops and their families -- giving them a Christmas when they, otherwise, would have been without their families and without a holiday.

As I was leaving the tree farm yesterday afternoon, Frank said something that stuck with me. I had been having a hard time that day because, at work, I felt like all I did was make mistakes. Frank was showing me around the farm, showing me all the trees he was so proud of. And when I was about to leave to go back to the office, he hugged me. He only knew me for about 15 minutes, yet he hugged me and told me not to be like other journalists. He told me that, if a cauliflower wanted to be a broccoli and it became a broccoli, it wouldn't be a very good broccoli. So why settle for not being a very good broccoli when you were a great cauliflower all along?

And that really hit me. He could see something in me that I couldn't even see myself. And it made me realize, that's why I've been screwing up. That's why I haven't been on my best game lately. I've been trying to be like everybody else, trying to be that broccoli, when I was meant to be a cauliflower. If you try to be somebody you're not, if you're always worried about being that person others want you to be, you will screw up. But, as Frank taught me, why try to be something different when you're amazing just the way you are?

Local Hockey Team Giving Back - by Kristy

The OHL hockey team I intern for, the Plymouth Whalers, have great and unique ways to give back to the community. Each game night there's a new promotion going on which benefits fans as well as the community. Recently they've had a night honoring veterans as well as a food drive.
This upcoming weekend the Whalers have two home games and two new ways to give back. On Friday December 3rd, there will be a blood drive at Compuware from noon to 6pm. Anyone who attempts to give blood will get a free ticket for the game, which starts at 7:05pm. The following night, Saturday December 4th will be the Annual Teddy Bear Toss. Fans are encouraged to bring a stuffed animal, or purchase one at the game, and then toss it out onto the ice when the Whalers score their first goal. All stuffed animals tossed on the ice will be donated to the Plymouth Community United Way children's charities.
Tickets are still available so please come out to support a great cause and a great hockey team!

A second chance at life - by Monica

Read original story at Christian Science Monitor and Indie Pro Pub.

Imagine someone you thought died, showing up at your doorstep, alive.

Sounds like a scene of a movie -- not real life.

But for three teenage boys from Tokelau island (Samuel Pelesa, Filo Filo and Edward Nasau) in New Zealand, they got a second chance at life when their families thought they died.

Two weeks ago, the boys were presumed dead after the air force in New Zealand tried and failed in locating them.

The boys went out fishing in their small aluminum boat in October, and, after fifty days, what other conclusion could you think of except that the boys had drowned or starved?

That's what their village thought too, and they held a memorial service for the boys -- expecting never to see them again.

Then, on Wednesday, the boys were found on their small aluminum boat by a tuna boat crew.

The fact that the boys survived is truly a miracle.

These boys got a second chance at life -- a chance that no one ever thought could happen. So often, we take our lives for granted, when there are people out there, like these boys, who have to fight to keep their lives. Stories such as these remind that life really is a gift.

The village that these three boys lived in thought they were gone. I bet their families had so much left they wanted to say. I bet all they wanted was just to hug them one more time, tell them they loved them. And, now, they can say it. Most people don't get this second chance. So, why wait to say the things we want to say? Pretend that this happened to someone you care about. Now treat them this way, say the things you put off saying, because everyday is a second chance.

Give Thanks - by Kristy

The holidays are fast approaching, with Thanksgiving tomorrow, it's a great opportunity to reflect on all that you are thankful for. Whether it's big things or little things, they all matter. Spend time with your loved ones this weekend and make sure they know how lucky you feel to have them in your life.

I've always had a heavy heart around the holidays and love spending time with my family. But this past semester has changed my perspective on the meaning of thankful. Ever since volunteering at the Children's Hospital in August, I've seen how blessed I am to have my health and for my friends and family to have theirs. I feel inspired by these kids and their families because now is an especially hard time if you or someone you love is in the hospital. But strength will prevail in times of need. I feel comforted to know, at a place like Children's, no patient is alone. They have family support and staff support to help get them through the holidays with a smile on their faces.

So whether you are looking at the big picture or small picture this year, it's all important when it comes to being thankful.

AMA performance - by Kristy

To follow up on Monica's amazing Kid Rock blog post last Friday, I wanted to share a YouTube video of his performance at the American Music Awards last night. I think the video and the song lyrics speak for themselves. The word "inspiring" does not even do the performance justice.

Bad boy gone good - by Monica

Read original article by Oakland Press writer Gary Graff.

Michigan born singer Kid Rock has a rep for being a bad boy.

But, deep down, not so much.

I've heard of good boys gone bad, but Kid Rock is a bad boy gone good, which is a rep I think he should be even more proud of.

Kid Rock has purchased $25,000 worth of gift cards from Meijer's to provide Thanksgiving dinner to 1,000 metro-Detroit families in need for Thanksgiving.

Many of us take the turkey and the stuffing on Thanksgiving day for granted, but some people aren't as fortunate. They can't afford this feast that many of us have grown accustomed to. So Kid Rock will buy a full holiday meal for each family of about four, including turkey, gravy, potatoes, vegetables, cranberry sauce, rolls, and desert.

With this, Kid Rock shows his fans that good guys do finish first and that he does use his money to help those who can't afford simple pleasures like Thanksgiving.

Design a logo, win $500 - by Monica

Every other week, my dad delivers meals to older adults who are in need and may not be able to cook for themselves or have the ability to leave their homes to get food. Every summer since I was eight, I would help my dad deliver the food, and I met many honorary grandparents.

I’m sure many of you have heard of Meals on Wheels, and I think it’s a great program. Some of the people I delivered to never had any visitors. Yet, when they saw my dad and me, their faces would light up. One woman would give me teddy bears from her home, wrap me in a hug whenever she saw me and always call me her friend.

Now, Meals on Wheels needs our help.

Every company needs a logo – something that everyone visualizes when they think of them. For McDonald’s, it’s the yellow arches. For K-Mart, it’s the big red K. For Apple, it’s obviously an apple. For Nike, it’s the swosh. Now Meals on Wheels need a logo that people will always identify with Meals on Wheels.

And they want the public to design this logo.

Bonus: whoever designs the winning logo will receive a $500 check.

This contest ends at 5 p.m. on Fri. Jan. 14, 2011 and is open to Michigan residents.

The submitted entry must be original.

To enter, complete and submit the official online entry form at www.aaa1b.org under News & Events along with your .jpeg or .pdf image (no larger than 2MB) to mealsonwheelslogocontest@aaa1b.com. The e-mail subject needs to be “Meals on Wheels Logo Contest”. Or you can mail the submission form with the design to Meals on Wheels Logo Contest, Area Agency on Aging 1-B, 29100 Northwestern Highway, Suite 400, Southfield MI 48034.

Helping Heal Hearts at the DMC - by Kristy

This is defensive tackle Ndamukong Suh's first season with the Detroit Lions and he definitely isn't shy about getting around town and making his presence known in the community. Besides being a fan favorite on the field, he's quickly becoming a role model off the field as well. He's made countless appearances for charities, autograph signings, and has attended other Detroit sporting events, such as Pistons and Red Wings games in the short time he has been in Detroit so far.

Just last week he paid a visit to the Detroit Medical Center downtown. He had a tour of the rehabilitation center and the children's hospital. He was also able to interact with a few patients and help lift their spirits. He plans on coming back as much as possible in the future.

This 6'4" 307 pound man surely has the heart of a lion, no pun intended. ;)

Click here for the DMC blog's full story with pictures.

Be apart of the Thanksgiving parade - by Monica

Read the original article by Oakland Press writer Gina Joseph on the Oakland Press' website or visit after5detroit.com.

When I was little, I used to dream of taking part in America's Thanksgiving Parade. I drew a picture of my own design -- a "Little Mermaid" float -- and also auditioned to be one of the kids who announced the floats on Channel 4, unfortunately not getting picked.

Now Big Head Corps, the company which obviously creates the big head masks you see at the parade, is inviting people to become part of their team and feel more a part of the Thanksgiving parade like many of us dreamed of as little kids.

Big Head Corps is an organization that offers young professionals the chance to get involved with America’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and offer fun programs and networking opportunities. Former Grosse Pointe native Jim Dailey is the co-founder of this group.

To become an official member of Big Head Corps costs $200, and their benefits include breakfast on parade morning, shuttle service to the parade, being able to actively participate in the parade, two VIP grandstand seats, two VIP pancake breakfast tickets, four passes to the annual Parade Company Preview Party and Big Head Corps apparel. What I think is most exciting is the chance to ACTUALLY WALK IN THE PARADE YOURSELF. To me, that is worth the $200 in itself.


If you do want to be apart of this Michigan tradition, hurry up because open enrollment ends tomorrow. For more information on how to become a Big Head Corps member or The Parade Company volunteer, visit www.theparade.org or call 313-923-7400.

Now, if only they could make me a "Little Mermaid" mask...

Caring in Children - by Kristy

Today browsing inspiration stories on Values.Com, I came across one that I really liked and I wanted to share.

Title: My Son's Spirit
We often do not realize how monumental the briefest moments in our children's lives truly are and how much they reveal about their true character. I am sharing this story in honor of my 7 year old son who is so often my guiding light. I received the following email message from the mother of a child at my son's elementary school. "Today, when my son and I went to pick up my daughter at school, my son was upset about something (probably the change in routine). He was crying and screaming. Your son came over, sat next to us, and tried to console him. It was one of the most wonderful things I was able to witness. My son is autistic so we always worry about how he will be treated by his peers. Your son made my day. My daughter also shared the story of how your son helped her by being her crutch when she hurt her knee. Thanks for raising such a great kid!" As a mother, I can only pray that these moments of caring continue to accumulate and make him a compassionate man throughout his life.


Story submitted by: Donna

See more great stories just like this one on Values.com under the "your stories" tab.

Team Coco - by Kristy

Nine months after comedian Conan O’Brien left NBC, he will be back on television tonight on TBS. In January, Conan was paid millions of dollars from NBC to give up his time slot to Jay Leno, an act that stirred a lot of controversy. Many Conan fans were distraught at his leave from late night television. However, anticipation began to build in April when TBS announced they were going to pick him up. This story shows that with enough determination, you can always come back on top.

One guilt-free hour - by Monica

In the middle of the night this Sunday at 2 a.m. is Day Light Savings Time! So, before you go to bed on Saturday night, set your clocks back one hour. This one is my favorite Day Light Savings Time -- when we gain an hour instead of losing one. But make sure you change your time, or your whole schedule will be off, and you'll wonder why you're going an hour early to everything you do.

So, I advise for you not to spend this extra hour working or doing housework. Think of this as your one guilt-free hour. We live in a world where we are constantly in rush, and feel bad for doing nothing. If you are one of these people, let this hour be your hour to do whatever the heck you want to. Here are some of my ideas of what you can do with your extra hour:
-Sleep (my personal favorite)
-Watch television
-Read a book
-Go to the bar with your girlfriends or with the guys (after-all, the bars will be open one hour later on Saturday night...just make sure you drink responsibly and find a DD!)
-Eat some of that leftover Halloween candy
-Call a friend, especially one that you haven't kept in touch with in a while because you "haven't had time." You can't use that excuse on Day Light Savings Time.
-...or write a letter to someone you care about
-Take a long, hot shower
-Dance around your bed room to music
-Or write your own song
-Bake a cake
-Give yourself a manicure and pedicure

No matter what you do -- just RELAX!

Post with any other ideas you have of what to do with that extra hour.

Compliments - by Monica

Have you ever had one of those weeks where you really feel down about yourself? When you feel like all you hear are the negative things, and it, in turn, you feel like there is nothing you can do right?

Why does it feel like people take so much time pointing out the bad things instead of focusing on the good?

Yesterday I was seen on television (or at least my voice) for the first time in my life. The Oakland Press was covering the election, and we were on the local channel CMNTV. And, well, everything that could go wrong did. My results didn't come in until after deadline, my webcam wasn't working, my reception on my phone was static-y and the whole show was running behind.

But then, when I went in to work today, one of the reporters, Karen Workman, told me she was proud of me.

And that's all it took to make my day.

All week I was scared that I wouldn't be good enough and that I would screw up. And in different areas of my life, I just felt like I was looked down upon.

Yet just one compliment made me feel like I am good enough.

Why does it feel like it's easier, sometimes, to criticize rather than to compliment.

I challenge everyone to compliment today instead of criticize. It will make a world of a difference.

I found this article on the Port Clinton News Herald and reporter Catherine Hadley said,

The compliments that have meant the most to me are those that showed the giver actually noticed me, sometimes in ways in which I had not seen.

The compliments themselves were wonderful to hear. The fact that the givers were paying attention to me on several deep levels was not only equally flattering, but also surprising to me...

A perceptive compliment can change someone's life. I believe it is the most effective way to nurture a loved one's strengths. That, in turn, could give that person the power to overcome his or her weaknesses.

Vote - by Kristy

Just a reminder for everyone to get out and vote tomorrow! Check out this story for some information.

Give military a Halloween this season - by Monica

Tomorrow is Halloween (or for me, I celebrated Halloween the last two days and will spend Halloween night working, but that's beside the point). For kids though, that means one thing...candy.

For dentists though it means another thing...cavities.

But Waterford Township dentist Kurt Heuerman wants to put good use to the extra candy that kids are bound to get (instead of stuffing it in their faces to the point of throwing up).

If you have extra candy, Heuerman will give you $2 for every pound of candy and will donate this candy to the military who won't get a Halloween at all this year. So then the men and women overseas who don't get to celebrate with their children can at least eat a Hershey bar and think of home.

From 4 to 6 p.m. on Nov. 1 and Nov. 2, the dentist office will be accepting unopened candy to send overseas. The office is at 4450 Walton Blvd. in Waterford Township. Call 248-674-0495 or visit www.thewaterforddentist.com.

To read the original story by Carol Hopkins on The Oakland Press.

Taylor Swift - by Kristy

Taylor Swift has a new album, "Speak Now" which was released this week. Taylor is a fantastic and creative artist who is inspiring to all her fans across the world. I admire her for her courage as she lives her life in the spotlight with such grace.

Trunk or Treat - by Kristy

Trunk or Treat is an amazing event that is held in many cities all over the country during the week of Halloween. The idea is to provide young children with a safe and friendly environment for trick or treating. The events are usually held at churches, but can be held at any public area in the community. People volunteer and park their cars around a parking lot and kids can come around and get candy from trunk to trunk. Usually these events are held during the day and are specifically targeted for children who live in urban cities that aren't completely safe to trick or treat from home to home at night.

Keep your eyes peeled for a Trunk or Treat event in your area! It's fun for both kids and adults!

The day has come where zombies rise from their graves - by Monica

Every guy I know has a plan of what they will do when there is a zombie attack on the world someday.

Well, on Saturday, be ready to put that plan into action, guys! Because the zombies will roam the earth.

But don't shoot these "zombies" in the head, because these zombies are actually doing something for the good of humankind...instead of eating their brains like most of us know zombies for.

On Saturday night in Hazel Park, at least 900 people are dressing up at zombies and roaming around the city, freaking out unsuspecting people.

And they are doing this for a cause -- to donate food to St. Justin's food bank in Hazel Park that recently ran out of food and, therefore, has to turn away homeless families. The only admission fee for this event is to bring three cans of food for St. Justin's. I think it's great what Mikel McClellan, 23, and Jonas Grabill, 21 (the creators of the Zombie Walk) are doing.

This is a fun way to help those in need.

If you are interested in attending Hazel Park’s Zombie Walk, meet outside of the Hazel Park City Hall at 111 E. Nine Mile Road dressed as a zombie.

For more information, read my article about the Zombie Walk on the Oakland Press' website.

WEAR PURPLE TODAY - by Monica

“All are equal in the eyes of the force. Give everyone the same size of portions. And rid the world of being bias.”- Tai-Da Vrikaurvan

In the morning, when you are in your closet picking out what to wear for work or school, I strongly recommend that you pick something purple.

Why you may ask?

Because today, Oct. 20, people from around the world will be wearing purple in memory of the six gay boys who committed suicide this year due to harassment and bullying. I want the whole world to look like Barney exploded today -- where you can't go anywhere without seeing purple.

No, today is not about your specific beliefs – it’s about dignity for ALL humankind. It’s not fair that people are made to feel lesser than others because of their sexual orientation.

So, I hope that all of you reading this will take a stand for all those in the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community who are being treated less than they deserve. Take a stand to show that this is not right. Show those who are bullied that they are loved and supported and that life does get so much better.

To read the article I wrote in the Oakland Post and to find out more information about Spirit Day, go to “Fight bullying by wearing purple on Spirit Day.”

Fun Things to do in October - by Kristy

-Visit a cider mill



-Go on a hay ride



-Try a seasonal drink from Starbucks, like the pumpkin spice latte



-Pick apples/pumpkins



-Check out some haunted houses



-Attend costume parties



-Carve a pumpkin



-Trick or Treating

Thirty-three Chilean miners rescued! - by Monica

Imagine being trapped underground, no clothes but the clothes on your back, no bathrooms, no showers and hardly any room to move around, with 32 other people for a little over two months. I personally wouldn't want to be trapped anywhere for two months, let alone underground with the constant possibility that the earth above you may cave in at any moment. I would just assume I was a goner.

But these 33 men were not goners, which was a miracle in itself, and the video above, watching the men emerge from the ground, gave me chills. As many of you have probably heard, due to all the coverage in the news, 33 miners in Chile were trapped in a mine for 69 days. And Wednesday, all 33 of them were rescued.

Coming up from the ground, seeing the sunlight for the first time in 69 days, would definitely make you stop taking things for granted, that's for sure. These men had so much strength and so much hope. I would personally be sitting in a corner, panicking, if this happened to me. But, no, they remained positive, which I think is the reason why they survived. They didn't give up hope.

Read original article by Associated Press on Oakland Press' website.

Inspiring Visuals - by Kristy

Take a look at these inspiring billboards from the values.com website.

Children Making Changes - by Kristy

My inspiration for this post came from something I read over the summer. It was something that, at first glance was really heartbreaking, but I want to turn it into something inspiring. My dad teaches middle school in Detroit and over the summer, he taught a composition English class. One of their journal assignments was to list their favorite things and their least favorite things about the city of Detroit. Many of these young children were listing things like “too many abandoned houses, too many murders, too much crime, too many drugs, too many homeless people” and so on. It’s so sad that these types of things are considered regulatory in the city in which they live. They did have many things they love about Detroit though.

Now, I read these student’s compositions back in June and it’s stuck with me all these months. And today I was thinking about how I could turn this sad story into something inspiring. I think it’s great that these kids have recognized these serious problems, now they just need the encouragement to help seek and advocate change both now and in their future. Children are the future and they can help change it for the better. The worst thing would be for them to simply accept this as their fate.

Luckily, I know there’s many organizations which help kids realize they really can make a difference in their lives and in this world. Disney: Friends for Change is just one example. Disney Friends for Change website.

Donate your birthday - by Monica

Read original article at San Diego 6.

After learning the words "ma ma" and "da da," one of the next words we learn is "Mine!" And as we get older, many people still live by the words, "No, that's mine!"

Well, 9-year-old Luke Nelson learned early in life that there are things more important in life than things.

When Nelson invited his friends to his birthday party, instead of asking for a gift like most kids his age would, he asked for his friends to give a donation to the make-a-wish foundation for a child he had never met. Online, he saw this child on the make-a-wish foundation's website -- a 10-year-old who was suffering from a liver disease and wanted to be able to see the Yankees play. Nelson raised $600 in place of presents he would have received for that money in order to make this child's dream come true.

For people who would like to donate their birthdays to those less fortunate, a website has been created called The Birthday Club. The birthday club encourages people to ask for others to donate food tofood pantries instead of giving them a birthday present. Or you can pick a foundation, as Nelson did, to give the money you would have made from your birthday presents instead of asking for another DVD or another video game or another pair of shoes.

Human-friendly diamonds - by Monica

Image credit: Brilliant Earth

Many women dream of the day when their boyfriend (or future boyfriend) proposes with a beautiful diamond ring. Ironically, my friend Margaret and I went into a diamond store at Somerset mall today as we imagined what the rings would look like on our fingers (and Margaret took pictures of the rings in case my boyfriend needed suggestions...oh how I love my friends!)

When I got home from the mall, I came across the website brilliantearth.com. And there I learned the sad truth about diamonds and what this company is doing to try and stop this. All of the diamonds come from Canadian and Namibian mines that follow human and environmentally friendly practices. For anyone who has seen the movie "Blood Diamond" or heard the song "Diamonds" by Kayne West, you know of the unethical ways diamonds miners in countries such as Zimbabwe and South Africa are treated. According to Brilliant Earth's website, in Zimbabwe, killings, rape, torture, forced labor and child labor are all used to subdue the local population and extract the diamond wealth for the benefit of the military and the political allies of President Robert Mugabe. In order to achieve wealth and power, these countries overlook the way they are treating their workers...and then sell the diamonds to us, Americans who don't realize the practices that are going on in these countries or who want diamonds so much they try not to think about it.

I think what Beth Gerstein and Eric Grossberg, a married couple from San Francisco, did for the diamond industry is amazing. When trying to find a ring to propose to Beth with, Eric could not find any diamond stores that sold conflict-free rings. So, Eric and Beth decided to create their own company where they sold ONLY conflict-free diamond rings. They are the founders of Brilliant Earth, and just looking into what they have done is very happy news. All of the diamonds they sell are conflict-free diamonds. All of their diamonds are tracked to make sure that they come from ethical and environmentally responsible sources. You can still have a diamond and not put your money into an industry that hurts others for their own personal gain and wealth. So I encourage anyone who is thinking of proposing anytime soon to seriously look into buying a conflict-free diamond for your significant other. If countries who treat their workers so badly stop making money for their diamonds, maybe then they'll finally reconsider the way they treat others.

Breast Cancer Awareness - by Kristy

October is breast cancer awareness month. Throughout this month, fundraisers and charities raise money and awareness for breast cancer. There's several ways to get involved this month, so keep your eyes peeled.

Many sports teams are stepping up too. The NFL players wore pink in their games yesterday for the cause. This season I am interning with the Plymouth Whalers hockey team and their next home game is a "pink out" in order to raise awareness and money as well. This game is October 16th, at 7:05pm. All money raised goes to the Barbara Karmanos Cancer Institute.

You're just too good to be true, can't take my eyes off of you - by Monica

Today is the first day of October. What does October make you think of? Halloween, leaves changing color, cider mills...football? Well, today schools in Oakland County such as Oxford High School, Lake Orion High School, Royal Oak High School and Notre Dame Prep are only thinking of the last thing mentioned on my list as they sit cheering for their high school at their homecoming games tonight.

And, obviously, since their homecoming football game is tonight, that means that hair salons will be packed tomorrow with girls getting their hair done for the homecoming dance.

So, my happy news for today is about how my best friend Felicia's little sister Mary was asked to homecoming this year. I've known Mary since she was born (wow, that makes me sound old haha), and this year she has her first date to homecoming (and I will definitely be there helping get her ready). I know you are probably thinking that me being all nostalgic and sappy isn't what you came here to read. But the way she was asked to homecoming is 100 percent news worthy!

Have you guys ever seen the movie "10 Things I Hate About You"? If you haven't, or if it's been a while, here's a little refresher:


Well that is the way Mary was asked to homecoming a week ago. Her date, Michael, got the school band to play, "Can't Take My Eyes Off of You." One of her friends is on the color guard team and asked her to come out to the football field to "watch her practice." In reality, she was getting Mary out onto the football field so the band could play the song while Michael, with a microphone in his hand, sang "Can't Take My Eyes off of You" on the bleachers.

I don't know about you, but that's probably the most romantic thing I've ever heard of. So I figured it was an appropriate happy news to share today, on the day where many highschoolers are looking forward to their homecoming.

Britney on "Glee" - by Kristy

Fox's hit show "Glee" featured Britney Spears on last night's episode. Over 13 million viewers tuned in to see the pop princess-themed episode. The cast performed several of her earlier career hits, such as "...Baby One More Time", "Stronger", and "I'm a Slave 4 U". After the recent difficult years Britney has gone through, it was great to see her in such a positive light again. She is an amazing performer and has worked hard for her career and I think she deserves to be praised more for all she has done to shape the entertainment industry. I am happy that "Glee" recgonized her in this way.

Quotes to Perk Up Your Monday -by Kristy

Happy Monday everyone. I thought today might be a good day to share a couple motivational quotes from Values.com, hope you enjoy!

“After all these years, I am still involved in the process of self-discovery. It's better to explore life and make mistakes than to play it safe. Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.”

“Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.”

“There's only us, there's only this. Forget regret, or life is yours to miss. No other road, no other way, no day but today.”

“Don't be afraid to be amazing.”

Facebook founder donates millions to struggling school district - by Monica

Photo credit: thenextweb
Original article: Facebook founder's $100M gift could change Newark

A guy at work was talking to us yesterday that he doesn't know anyone who worries more about money and are more stingy with their money than the rich. He said that the richest people he knows are the ones who are constantly looking at how to get more money and are the least likely to donate their money to those in need.

To me, this seemed like a very sad fact.

So, when reading the Oakland Press today, I was happy to read about the donation a very rich man is giving to a school district in need.

You would have to live under a rock not to know what Facebook is. And Mark Zuckerberg, the 26-year-old founder of Facebook who is worth $4 billion, is giving an $100 million stock donation to Newark, New Jersey's education.

He is expected to announce this donation today at 4 p.m. on Oprah.

Zuckerberg is one of high-tech's more generous philanthropists.

According to the article in the Oakland Press by AP writers GEOFF MULVIHILL and SAMANTHA HENRY:

The Newark district, which has about 40,000 students and a $940 million annual budget, has been plagued for years by low test scores, poor graduation rates and crumbling buildings, and was taken over by the state in 1995 after instances of waste and mismanagement, including the spending of taxpayer money by school board members on cars and restaurant meals.

We all have the ability to help those in need -- whether we are rich or poor or whether by donating our time or our money. There will always be people worse off than we are. And for Zuckerberg, there are many people who are worse off than he is. And he is using the money he has made to help those who are in need instead of hoarding it all for himself.

My dream of reporting from D.C. came true (well...sort of) - by Monica

So, as I have talked about before -- a couple of weeks ago I went on vacation to Virginia to visit my boyfriend's brother and went to D.C. for three days. Well, being the journalism nerd that I am, I fell in love while in D.C. I fell in love with a museum I didn't even know existed.

It's called the Newseum, and I really can't believe it's not more popular than it is. Housed in the Newseum are hundreds and hundreds of headlines and newspaper articles of memorable events, award-winning journalists' photography, a few of Elvis' jumpsuits, a piece of the Berlin wall, the top of the World Trade Center and a chunk of the Pentagon. There was also a gift shop (where I bought the above coffee cup). Sadly, there was no Oakland Press articles there (laaame)...only Detroit Free Press articles. I'm hoping in the years to come, I can help change this *wink*wink*.

But anyway, one of my favorite parts of being at the museum was making my own mock broadcast. Seeing myself reporting from "the White House" was surreal, something I always wondered what it would look like (even if I was actually standing in front of a green screen):

Detroit - by Kristy

Tomorrow night on ABC a new show will premiere called Detroit 1-8-7. It's a drama about crime and law enforcement in, you guessed it, Detroit. I think this is a great and exciting thing for the city. So often people have the tendency to look at Detroit in a negative light. I hope this show can put a different spin on the views people have. If Detroit was really a waste, then movies and television shows wouldn't be flocking here like they have the past couple years to film. Detroit has a lot to offer and it's cool to see Hollywood take notice. Many movie stars have admitted their apprehensions towards filming in Detroit, only to immediately take it all back after they actually visit. I think this new show and new spotlight on the city is an inspiring story. It proves that things aren't always as they seem and if you look hard enough you can see beauty in something that may seem rundown at first glance.

A new window of opportunity - by Monica

I know that following your dreams is a common subject I talk about. But after a horrible week (which I know isn't happy news), I came across this article in the Oakland Press by Catherine Galasso, who's syndicated columns are published worldwide. And it really helped me to keep my head up despite the bad news it felt like I kept getting dished this week.

I know that when you're going through tough times, the last thing you want to hear is, "Sometimes bad things happen so better things can fall into place." "But it hurts NOW," you think. The last think you care about is that, in the future, it will get better.

But I learned this week that if you keep wallowing in it, it is less likely that things will get any better any time soon. That's what inspired me by Galassso's article. When you want something, you need to WORK at it. You can just sit back and feel sorry for yourself because you aren't getting what you wanted.

Galasso wrote, Yesterday, I received an email from a reader who lost a job that she really loved and feared she would never find anything quite as good. Rather than focusing on uncertainties, she looked ahead and began to see in her mind’s eye new possibilities for her future and pursued them. “A few months later,” she wrote, “I found another job right around the corner from home, with the same exact hours as before, and the salary was even better.”

Meet Henrik Zetterberg - by Kristy

Henrik Zetterberg of the Detroit Red Wings will be doing an autograph signing on Thursday September 23rd at Hockeytown Authentics in Troy. Not only do fans have a great opportunity to meet Hank the Hunk but it's also for a good cause. In exchange for a wristband to guarantee your autograph, fans need to either bring a smoke detector or a $10 donation which supports the Red Wings foundation and local fire departments.

Unfortunately I have plans that day which will prevent me from attending, but luckily Hank is one of the few Red Wings players I have already had the chance to meet. If you can, make sure you take advantage of this awesome opportunity! It supports the community and you walk away with an autograph from one the National Hockey League's finest.

Motivation by Kristy

Something happened yesterday that sparked my topic idea of motivation for today’s entry. Motivation is such a critical thing to be able to manifest. Sometimes when something doesn’t go your way, the best thing you can do is learn from it. The best thing you can do is take the bad and turn it into good. Turn it around and strive to be vindicated and have things go your way. With enough motivation, I believe, almost anything can be possible.

So the situation that brought on this entry was the season opener for the Detroit Lions at the Chicago Bears yesterday. The Lions opened the season with a loss that could have, should have, would have, been a win. I’ll spare the details and cut right to the end: with seconds left Calvin Johnson caught a pass and what he thought was the game winning touchdown with seconds left in the game. The problem? The touchdown was overturned due to a new rule. This rule basically states that a catch only counts if the "process" of the catch is completed. In the eyes of many, he caught the ball and it was clearly a touchdown BUT since he let go of it after he fell to the ground it was overturned. If you are confuse or if you think this sounds ridiculous or even stupid, well then join the rest of the NFL fan base. I’ve already read thousands of comments from fans showing their disgust for the league and this rule.

It’s one thing to lose, but it’s another thing to lose due to a controversial call. And it seems to me that Detroit sports teams and fans are all too familiar with this feeling. The referees more or less handed the playoff series over to the San Jose Sharks when they played the Detroit Red Wings this past May. Detroit Tigers pitcher Galarraga was robbed of his perfect game earlier this season. And now the Detroit Lions, who can hardly win as it is, get robbed of what would have been their first win on the road in over 4 years. Now as depressing as those facts are, it’s important to not dwell. Some of the best growth can come from loss. You need take misfortunate and turn it into motivation.

And what is Detroit Lions linebacker Zack Follett’s motivation for December 5th’s rematch at home against the Chicago Bears? That would be their classless fans. His Facebook status says, “Leaving the stadium as I look out the window Chicago fans flipping us the bird.. I don't think they realize what we WILL do to them later this season”. I think that’s a perfect example of motivation in the making.

Whatever it takes to get motivated, just realize its importance, and go with it. Any hope, dream, wish, can be yours if you want it enough. Determination and motivation matter.

What Michigan has that no one else can beat - by Monica

As I wrote in my last entry, this week I'm on vacation in Virginia to visit my boyfriend's brother. Currently, I am in D.C. at a Washington Nationals baseball game, writing my blog entry on my phone. No, I have not switched over to the dark side (which is the side of anything but the blue and orange). I do have to say, I have witnessed firsthand that no one has fans as energetic as like Michigan does. Our loyalty, through the good and the bad, always stays just as strong.
I, personally, think that says something about the people of Michigan.

That's what my boyfriend's brother Dale says he misses the most about Michigan...going to our sports' games. Even though he's lived here for 17 years, still he roots for Michigan teams, and even has the Tigers cheer as his ring tone.

What is your favorite thing about Michigan that no other state can beat?

[Update]
So, I figured just to demonstrate Dale's withstanding loyalty to Michigan teams, I would should you a couple pictures of his computer room:

Realizing your dreams - by Monica

Image credit: louisfelix.com
Ever since I was three years old, before I even knew how to write, I knew I wanted to be a writer. I would make up words to the pictures in the Reader's Digest magazine and would tell my mom the words to stories I would make up in my head. This is always what I wanted to do.

I have been in Virginia this week (which is where I am as I currently write this blog entry), visiting my boyfriend's brother and his family. I was helping his 10-year-old girl Myah with her homework tonight after dinner, and I was reminded of my big dreams when I was little (big dreams that have held true, even to this day). In her homework assignment, she was asked what great person she would want to emulate. This is when she informed me that she wants to be a fashion designer someday, so I went online with her to help her find which designer she wants to be like someday. Of course, Myah choose Vera Wang as her example.

The stars in her eyes when she saw the dresses and the way she exclaimed that this made her want to start drawing dresses as well made me smile. I could see how bright this 10-year-old's future was by watching her looking through the dresses.

Do you remember when you where little, how the world seemed so big and everything felt possible? I could see that in Myah's eyes today, and I remembered what that felt like. But I have met many adults who give up on their dreams. Hearing Myah talk about what she wants to be, I never wanted her to lose that inspiration like so many of us adults have in our lifetimes. I wanted her to believe anything is possible...because it is. And we need to remember that true -- that anything IS possible and that our dreams are within our reach...if we are willing to work for them.

So, in this blog, I want to challenge you to remember what your dream was when you were younger? Is that still your dream? Have you compromised on that dream?

If the answer to all of the above is yes, I just want to say what I said to Myah -- your dream IS possible! And you should fight for it, never compromising.

Here is an excerpt from an article I read on ezinearticle.com that I encourage you to read.

You know what's sad? When a parent pushes their child to not give up on their dreams but that child constantly sees that their parent has. As parents, we have to set the example for our children and allow them to see a role model who strives to be their very best. That child will not have a reason to give up on anything because they don't see their example in the household doing it. Experiencing the rewards that come from your accomplishment feels pretty good and that child is going to want to have that feeling as well. If the road that you are currently on is not satisfactory to you, it's ok to take a step back and regroup. Put a plan together that you can stick to so that you can make that detour pay off big for you! There are 24 hours in a day. Utilize these hours to the best of your ability! When you want something, and you want it bad...you will do what it takes to get it! So if you have to dedicate a couple of hours a day towards your plan so that you can achieve the goals that are for you, so be it! Because you know what's amazing? When you discover what it takes for you to get on your path and put a plan into place, you'll begin to notice so many things falling into your lap. All of the pieces of the complicated puzzle will begin to fall into place. So if you haven't already done so, get out a piece a paper and just do it! Don't fight it anymore because it's past time for you to experience the greatness you have been preventing yourself from achieving. Start working on your plan now so that your life can get back on track and you can begin to get ahead on accomplishing your dreams! It's time to start living the life you're supposed to live. Our lives are like a maze, it seems really complicated when you begin, but make the right turns and you'll realize that it wasn't so challenging after all.

Fall by Kristy

Labor Day is often seen as the holiday which signifies the end of summer and time to head back to school.

Many people don't like to say goodbye to summer, but I have to say fall is one of my favorite seasons. It brings cooler weather, hockey + football seasons, cider mills, and Halloween. This is the time of year that Starbucks offers their seasonal drinks, like the popular Pumpkin Spice Latte. What are your favorite things about Fall?

The future is bright...the future is green - by Monica

Put on my pajamas. Wash my face. Brush my teeth. Plug in my phone.

I'm sure thousands of other people have added plugging in their phone to their list of nightly rituals in the past decade. It takes me a couple seconds, and it has just become a habit to me.

Don't you wish everything was this easy?

Well, in the near future (within the next year or so), it looks like we'll be able to do this with our cars. And, to me, I am liking the concept of being able to plug my car in while I sleep, like I do my cell phone, instead of buying gas.

You can read the original article in the Oakland Press about the future of cars.

In the article by Susan Peck, special to the Oakland Press, Steve Irwin, who is the marketing representative of a company that is working on making these charging stations, told her that the low cost of operation is an incentive and that future municipal charging stations may be free.

“It costs about a dollar a day to operate an electric car and you get about 40 or 50 miles per charge, perfect for city driving. If you are charging at home, you can do it at night when the electric rates are lowest, just like you charge your phone for the next day,” Irwin said.

Photo credit: How Stuff Works

Online World - by Kristy

Many people argue that the internet and the many social networking sites that are offered kills the actual face to face communication among my generation. I would most certainly agree with that statement. Think about it, how many times have you written on someone's Facebook wall instead of picking up the phone or driving over to their house? Probably a majority of the time. The internet changes the way we communicate. Some people might think this is a bad thing. And I'll agree, it's controversial. It is certainly healthy for young kids to get outside and play instead of being hidden away in their rooms chatting over the computer.

But an interesting flip side to the controversy is Skype. Skype allows people to chat via webcam over the internet. It brings people across the globe closer who cannot simply get in a car and drive to visit with a friend or family member. It's the best substitution for face to face communication when oceans separate you and a loved one. Not to mention this amazing service is available free. A close friend of mine is studying abroad and when she gets homesick, Skype can help cure her blues. And it's a neat way for her friends and family to actually see what she is experiencing.



So while the internet can often isolate and separate many of us, it also can miraculously bring people across the world together - and that is truly a blessing.

Something to think about - by Kristy

"I guess I can’t really change the past since it’s now history and I certainly cannot change tomorrow, for I am not promised it, but I can change the way I live today. This realization in itself is the root of not only who I want to be tomorrow, but who I am working on being today. Never again do I want to fail anything without an attempt; I want push myself to my fullest potential, and if that means that I fall a few times along the way then so be it, but I will no longer allow myself to just give up. I deserve better, and it is time that I start believing that." Nadia Kelifa

Perseverance - by Monica

Read the original article I wrote for the Oakland Press at Church Members Helping in Haiti

A couple weeks ago, I drove by Cornerstone Community Church in Waterford to see their wooden cross, half charred by fire, still standing proudly in front of the church for everyone who passed by to see. That cross showed me how much that church perseveres through the tough times and still shares their message to anyone who passes by.

In the beginning of college, I went to Cornerstone every Wednesday night. And I was shocked when I heard that, on Aug. 9, an unknown person broke into the church and set the inside on fire, causing $50,000 in damages. I am convinced that this means the church was doing something right if someone tried so hard to stop them.

But the members of Cornerstone are not letting this stop them! They are not letting the person who set the fire stop them! With no church building to call their own, members of Cornerstone Community Church will be holding a fundraiser tonight — not for themselves, but to help others.

Members of Cornerstone will host a drive-in movie outside the church to raise money for their upcoming trip to Haiti. All funds raised will go to support the trip, which is approximately $1,300 per person. The movie will be “The Blind Side,” and the cost is a donation.

“If anything, our struggles make us more equipped to help others,” said Brian Baldwin, pastor of Cornerstone. “Everyone, at some point or another, struggles, so if we can in any way help someone through a hard time, we will.”

Before the fire, members of the church began planning a mission trip to Haiti. And, despite their recent loss, they will not let it hinder their mission trip in March 2011.

“Just because we face a few trials doesn’t mean we are going to stop helping people the way God is calling us to do. That’s the whole reason Cornerstone is here, to help people,” said Jennifer Baldwin, Brian’s wife.

How often do we let people who set fire to who we are stop us? There are plenty of times where I sat down and just gave up because someone hurt me and I felt worthless. There are plenty of times where I also turned a blind eye to someone else's pain because I was going through my own fair share of pain and didn't feel like helping someone else. Cornerstone Community Church taught me that despite what you are going through, there will always be someone worse off than you who needs help WAY more than you do! They also taught me that, if someone tries to set fire to who you are, this does not mean something is wrong with you! In fact, it means the opposite! It means you are doing something great and the enemy is trying desperately to halt you. Instead of listening, keep on going!

To attend the Haiti mission trip fundraiser, bring a lawn chair to the drive-in at 8:30 p.m. tonight outside the church at 2611 Dixie Hwy., Waterford Township. Donations will be accepted, and church members will sell drinks and popcorn.

Young at heart = a good thing - by Monica

Read the original article by Scott Mayerowitz at ABC News.

Have you ever met a man who tries so hard to put on a tough guy routine...to the point where you can't help but roll your eyes? Ladies, not to worry. There are more men out there who have a sensitive side than would like to admit it. Personally, being young at heart is one of my top five favorite personality traits, a trait my boyfriend proudly exhibits with his collection of Star Wars collectibles and figurines. But did you know that there are men who carry their toys, preferably their teddy bears, with them when they spend the night away from home?


The British hotel chain Travelodge told ABC News that 25% of men reported they take their teddy bear away with them when going away on business. "The stuffed animal supposedly reminds them of home and -- some say -- helps fill a cuddle-void left by distant partners."

According to the article on ABC News, One in ten single men surveyed admitted they hide their teddy bear when their girlfriend stays over and 14 percent of married men reported they hide their teddy bear in the wardrobe or under the bed when any family and friends come to visit.

To me, this article gives a great example of men who do not follow a stereotype. And I think this teaches a valuable lesson to be who you want to be, do what you want to do, and don't worry about what others will think of you. Chances are, you're not alone.

Disney: Be Yourself - by Kristy

I have a confession to make: I love the Disney Channel. Every now and then, I find it to be a great stress reliever watching it and letting myself feel like a kid again.

The Biggest Loser Season 8 winner comes to Oakland County - by Monica

I'm sure you probably noticed my love of writing about non-profits and fundraisers. So, as you can suspect, this is another entry about a fundraiser. To everyone reading my blog today, I have a small request for you. Clear you schedule for a couple hours this Sunday at 10 a.m. Trust me, it will be worth it.

The winner of Season 8 The Biggest Loser is coming to Oakland County this weekend to speak at Oakland Christian Church and help feed the homeless of Pontiac. Danny Cahill lost 239 pounds of his previous 450 pounds, at the time setting a Biggest Loser record. And he will be sharing his story of success with others at the event. And, instead of eating like he previously filled his time with B.B.L. (before the Biggest Loser), he is now helping those who have no choice but to be hungry. Pontiac homeless shelters have recently been suffering from a food shortage. And so members of Oakland Christian Church ask that people who attend the event bring at least one can of food as their ticket to admission.

I think this is a great event because people will learn how to help themselves and also help others. I have read Cahill's story, and he teaches people that it's never too late to change and that our bad habits do not have a forever hold on us. We can beat our habits, just as Cahill beat his habits one-hundred pounds at a time. He learned that his weight cut his life expectancy down extremely, and that's when he saw that obesity didn't just effect himself. It also effected his family. He didn't want to leave his children without a father, and he didn't want to leave his wife as a widow. And that vision is what made him achieve his goal to take the weight off.

For more information about Danny Cahill, visit thedannycahill.com.

Oakland Christian Church is located at 5100 Adams Road in Oakland Township. The event begins at 10 a.m. on Sun. Aug. 22.